Okay, if I’m single or not doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter for this post and it doesn’t matter in life. And that’s what I want to talk about. The way how the society reacts to it and the fact the society made up this word. I mean, you have to something, right!? You can’t be nothing. Either you are single or not. But single doesn’t mean you are alone. You have people that surround you and love you. And most importantly you have yourself. The way society treats the meaning of single is awful. It’s like it is something bad. Something nobody wants to have or wants to be. Like you aren’t lovable. Or something else is wrong with you. Single is bad. To be it most of the time is worse. But why? I just don’t get the point of it. I’m never single. Because when I say I’m single that means to me that I don’t want it to be. That I feel bad being it and that I’m looking for a relationship. And that’s also the way most people see it. But you can be happy with being neither! Not beeing single and not beeing in a relationship! Stop making this word so awfully powerful!

Short note: That are my thoughts. That means don’t feel bad when you don’t see it the same way. And I just wrote all my thoughts down to give a little overview on the current thunderstorm in my had, so I know this post doesn’t really have an order and isn’t really structured. But I hope you liked reading it anyway!;-)


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2 responses to “Single?!”

  1. Zane says:

    Perfectly said!
    Love the photo that you created for this 🙂

  2. Ellie says:

    Thank you, darling!:-)) <3
    Have a wonderful Sunday!;-)